Thomas J. Nelson

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Real Estate Professional Consultant at Keys with Christine Brokered by EXP Realty

Thomas J. Nelson

DRE# 01261476

Big Block Realty

Well, let me tell you, real estate runs deep in my veins. It's like the very foundation of who I am. You see, it's a family affair—my folks, my grandparents, they were all in the game, making deals, managing properties. It was like breathing for us, you know?

Now, my grandma Frances, she was the one who got me started on this journey. She'd take me along to her deals, teaching me the ropes from a young age. And then there was grandpa Al, a real property guru. He showed me the ropes of real estate investing and even got me hands-on with some light construction work. Painting, electrical, plumbing—you name it, I was there, learning the ropes.

But life's a funny old thing, isn't it? While I was knee-deep in property management, another passion came calling: music. Now, I may not be the next Elvis, but I sure can hold my own with a guitar or drums. But it was when I discovered the magic of mixing music that things really took off. Parties turned into gigs, gigs turned into paid gigs, and before I knew it, I was running my own music business at the ripe old age of nineteen.

For three decades, I was the heart and soul behind Nelson-Entertainment, a Mobile DJ & Wedding Event planning company. What began as a simple hobby blossomed into a thriving business, and I had the privilege of orchestrating over 2000 weddings and countless other events. From humble beginnings, I learned invaluable lessons about entrepreneurship and the art of service.

But life had more in store for me. Ten years into my DJ career, I joined forces with my mother in the real estate business. Watching her navigate the industry, from land acquisition to home construction, was an education in itself. She didn't just sell homes; she cultivated genuine connections with her clients, becoming more than just their REALTOR®—she was their trusted confidante.

Inspired by her example and the arrival of my son, Wyatt, I embarked on my own real estate journey. Balancing my DJ gigs and property management duties, I laid the foundation for my fledgling real estate business. In 2003, my wife Ailina and I made the leap to San Diego, drawn by its inviting climate and vibrant community. La Jolla stole our hearts, offering the perfect backdrop for our new chapter.

Joining forces with Big Block Realty was a game-changer. Surrounded by like-minded professionals, I found a home where my values and vision aligned seamlessly. With access to top-notch training and support, I'm constantly honing my skills to better serve my clients.

I don't take your trust for granted. Each transaction is an opportunity to exceed your expectations and earn your satisfaction. Whether you're buying or selling, I'm here to guide you through every step of the process. And if you know someone in need of real estate expertise, don't hesitate to send them my way—I'll ensure they receive the same level of care and attention.

In the world of real estate, results matter. With me by your side, you can rest assured that your goals are my top priority. Let's embark on this journey together and turn your real estate dreams into reality.

It's A Good Life!

Thomas

Service Areas

San Diego

Service Areas

San Diego

  • San Diego

  • EXP Relocation Certification

  • EXP REO Certification

  • AHRN Certified Military Real Estate Agent

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Do not be cheap

Finesse Over Arrogance: The Pros and Cons of Lowball Offers

August 28, 20244 min read

Finesse Over Arrogance: The Pros and Cons of Lowball Offers in Real Estate

In the competitive world of real estate, making the right offer can be the difference between securing your dream home and watching it slip away. One strategy often employed by buyers is the lowball offer—proposing a price significantly below the asking amount, hoping to snag a bargain. But is this tactic effective, or does it reveal a lack of finesse in the art of negotiation?

Let’s explore the pros and cons of lowball offers, under the premise that "lowballing is for amateurs," while a more refined approach—getting an offer accepted and then negotiating—is often the better path.

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The Pros of Lowball Offers

  1. Potential for a Great Deal: The most obvious advantage of a lowball offer is the chance to purchase a property below market value. If the seller is motivated—perhaps under financial duress, a need to relocate quickly, or a property that has been on the market for an extended period—a lowball offer might be accepted.

  2. Testing the Waters: A lowball offer can serve as a starting point in negotiations. It may prompt the seller to make a counteroffer, giving the buyer insight into the lowest price the seller is willing to accept...if you haven't insulted them or lost credibility with them by doing so; it's risky.

  3. Saving Money: If successful, a lowball offer can save the buyer a significant amount of money, freeing up funds for renovations, furnishings, or other investments. To be though, this is the illusion that compels people to do this, when it's actually the exception not the rule.

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The Cons of Lowball Offers

  1. Risk of Offending the Seller: A lowball offer can easily be perceived as disrespectful or dismissive of the property’s value. You can look out of touch with the market. This can sour negotiations from the outset, leading the seller to reject the offer outright or become less willing to negotiate.

  2. Damaging Buyer Reputation: In markets where real estate professionals and sellers communicate closely, a buyer known for making lowball offers may gain a reputation as unserious or difficult to work with, potentially harming future negotiations.

  3. Missed Opportunities: A lowball offer might cause a seller to walk away from the table altogether, especially in a competitive market where other buyers are willing to pay closer to or even over the asking price. The buyer could lose the chance to secure the property they desire.

  4. Wasting Time: Lowball offers can prolong the negotiation process unnecessarily. While time is spent going back and forth on price, another buyer might swoop in with a more reasonable offer, leaving the lowballer out in the cold. They may also lose their representation, as no REALTOR® worth their salt will tolerate this for too long, if at all.

 

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Why Finesse Is Better Than Arrogance

While the allure of a lowball offer is understandable, the smarter, more sophisticated approach is to aim for acceptance first, then negotiate. Here’s why:

  1. Building Trust and Rapport: An initial offer that’s within a reasonable range of the asking price is more likely to be taken seriously. It shows the seller that the buyer respects the property’s value, laying the foundation for a constructive negotiation process.

  2. Keeping the Door Open: When a seller feels respected, they are more likely to be open to negotiation on other terms, such as closing dates, contingencies, or even a price reduction after inspections. Starting with a reasonable offer keeps the conversation going.

  3. Securing the Property: In competitive markets, getting an offer accepted quickly is crucial. A reasonable initial offer increases the chances of acceptance, reducing the risk of another buyer stepping in.

  4. Negotiating with Leverage: Once the offer is accepted, the buyer has more leverage to negotiate. For example, if the home inspection reveals issues, the buyer can negotiate for repairs or a price reduction. The seller, already emotionally invested in the sale, is more likely to concede.

In conclusion, while lowball offers may occasionally lead to a great deal, they often reflect a lack of finesse and can do more harm than good. The more effective approach is to make a reasonable offer, secure the property, and then use your REALTOR®'s negotiation skills to achieve the best possible outcome. So hire the best REALTOR® not the cheapest one. In real estate, as in life, finesse and respect will always outshine arrogance.

 

 

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Thomas J. Nelson is a published author, professional keynote speaker and residential REALTOR® in San Diego, CA.

Thomas J. Nelson

Thomas J. Nelson is a published author, professional keynote speaker and residential REALTOR® in San Diego, CA.

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Do not be cheap

Finesse Over Arrogance: The Pros and Cons of Lowball Offers

August 28, 20244 min read

Finesse Over Arrogance: The Pros and Cons of Lowball Offers in Real Estate

In the competitive world of real estate, making the right offer can be the difference between securing your dream home and watching it slip away. One strategy often employed by buyers is the lowball offer—proposing a price significantly below the asking amount, hoping to snag a bargain. But is this tactic effective, or does it reveal a lack of finesse in the art of negotiation?

Let’s explore the pros and cons of lowball offers, under the premise that "lowballing is for amateurs," while a more refined approach—getting an offer accepted and then negotiating—is often the better path.

lowball offers real estate

The Pros of Lowball Offers

  1. Potential for a Great Deal: The most obvious advantage of a lowball offer is the chance to purchase a property below market value. If the seller is motivated—perhaps under financial duress, a need to relocate quickly, or a property that has been on the market for an extended period—a lowball offer might be accepted.

  2. Testing the Waters: A lowball offer can serve as a starting point in negotiations. It may prompt the seller to make a counteroffer, giving the buyer insight into the lowest price the seller is willing to accept...if you haven't insulted them or lost credibility with them by doing so; it's risky.

  3. Saving Money: If successful, a lowball offer can save the buyer a significant amount of money, freeing up funds for renovations, furnishings, or other investments. To be though, this is the illusion that compels people to do this, when it's actually the exception not the rule.

real estate

The Cons of Lowball Offers

  1. Risk of Offending the Seller: A lowball offer can easily be perceived as disrespectful or dismissive of the property’s value. You can look out of touch with the market. This can sour negotiations from the outset, leading the seller to reject the offer outright or become less willing to negotiate.

  2. Damaging Buyer Reputation: In markets where real estate professionals and sellers communicate closely, a buyer known for making lowball offers may gain a reputation as unserious or difficult to work with, potentially harming future negotiations.

  3. Missed Opportunities: A lowball offer might cause a seller to walk away from the table altogether, especially in a competitive market where other buyers are willing to pay closer to or even over the asking price. The buyer could lose the chance to secure the property they desire.

  4. Wasting Time: Lowball offers can prolong the negotiation process unnecessarily. While time is spent going back and forth on price, another buyer might swoop in with a more reasonable offer, leaving the lowballer out in the cold. They may also lose their representation, as no REALTOR® worth their salt will tolerate this for too long, if at all.

 

winning real estate san diego

Why Finesse Is Better Than Arrogance

While the allure of a lowball offer is understandable, the smarter, more sophisticated approach is to aim for acceptance first, then negotiate. Here’s why:

  1. Building Trust and Rapport: An initial offer that’s within a reasonable range of the asking price is more likely to be taken seriously. It shows the seller that the buyer respects the property’s value, laying the foundation for a constructive negotiation process.

  2. Keeping the Door Open: When a seller feels respected, they are more likely to be open to negotiation on other terms, such as closing dates, contingencies, or even a price reduction after inspections. Starting with a reasonable offer keeps the conversation going.

  3. Securing the Property: In competitive markets, getting an offer accepted quickly is crucial. A reasonable initial offer increases the chances of acceptance, reducing the risk of another buyer stepping in.

  4. Negotiating with Leverage: Once the offer is accepted, the buyer has more leverage to negotiate. For example, if the home inspection reveals issues, the buyer can negotiate for repairs or a price reduction. The seller, already emotionally invested in the sale, is more likely to concede.

In conclusion, while lowball offers may occasionally lead to a great deal, they often reflect a lack of finesse and can do more harm than good. The more effective approach is to make a reasonable offer, secure the property, and then use your REALTOR®'s negotiation skills to achieve the best possible outcome. So hire the best REALTOR® not the cheapest one. In real estate, as in life, finesse and respect will always outshine arrogance.

 

 

Image 1 by Pete Linforth from Pixabay
Image 2 by vocablitz from Pixabay
Image 3 by Pete Linforth from Pixabay
Image 4 by Tumisu from Pixabay

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